Welcome to Anchor of Hope Counselling
Meet The Founder
Lead Psychotherapist and Supervisor
Michelle Ramsay
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As an expert in Narcissistic Abuse and a fully licensed Psychotherapist and Supervisor working within the BACP (British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy) framework, Michelle specialises in supporting individuals and couples who have experienced or are currently experiencing narcissistic abuse. With extensive experience in this field, Michelle deeply understands the profound emotional pain that victims endure and is committed to providing the expert guidance needed for healing.
Michelle also supervises therapists in private practice, offering specialist support for those working with clients affected by narcissistic abuse. She believes that having a safe, non-judgmental space where you can be heard, understood, and validated is essential to beginning your healing journey.
Michelle is especially interested in the effects of narcissistic abuse within families, particularly in relation to generational trauma and the lasting impact it can have across generations.
If you are struggling with the effects of Narcissistic Abuse, psychotherapy may be the answer you’ve been looking for. Book a consultation—you’ll meet me and know instantly if it’s the right fit.
Associate Counsellor
Paul Rowlands
Paul is an Associate Counsellor at Anchor of Hope Counselling. As a Counsellor working within the BACP Framework Paul offers counselling to adults who are dealing with a wide range of mental health difficulties.
Paul has a special interest in working with victims of Narcissistic Abuse. Drawing on personal experience and professional development he offers depth and knowledge in understanding the effects of NPD.
Paul strongly believes that the cornerstone of the therapeutic relationship is on building a collaborative, supportive, safe relationship, helping you build a deeper understanding of your feelings whilst offering you the time and space to process your emotions. The therapeutic relationship is unlike any other relationship. Within this real healing can take place.
Associate Counsellor
Ruth Hassard
Ruth is an Associate BACP Accredited Counsellor at Anchor of Hope Counselling. With experience across a wide range of settings, including the NHS, GP surgeries, non-profit organisations, and private practice.
Ruth has over 20 years experience working with clients who have experienced PTSD, bereavement, anxiety and depression. Ruth has a keen interest in working with victims of Narcissistic Abuse.
Ruth endeavours to provide a safe space, free from judgement. Where Counselling is not about the client being "fixed" but rather, it involves a collaborative process of discussing and exploring thus enabling the client to find their own unique voice as well as discovering an inner strength that empowers them for the future.
Associate Counsellor
Ruth Addis
Ruth is an Associate Counsellor at Anchor of Hope Counselling. As a Counsellor working within the BACP Framework Ruth has a special interest in working with those who have experienced trauma in particular narcissistic abuse.
Ruth has experience working with domestic abuse and grief. Ruth's empathic nature, combined with a deep understanding of interpersonal relationships, allows her to provide clients with the support and guidance they need to navigate through challenging times.
Ruth specifically focuses on encouraging clients to reconnect with themselves, find healing through inner-child work, and instil healthy boundaries so that they can enjoy great relationships both personally and professionally.
Individual Psychotherapy
Having a safe space to sit with a professional who is impartial and there to listen to you in a non judgmental empathic way, will help you gain clarity and insight to those areas of your life currently in the dark but very much effecting your everyday life, Particularly when there has been trauma and abuse.
CLIENT REVIEW
"Trauma is not what happens to you, it's what happens inside you as a result of what happened to you"
Gabor Mate
Out of your vulnerabilities will come your strength
Sigmund Freud
"Narcissists are masters of pathologising your emotions.They convince you that your emotional reactions to the abuse are the problem, rather than the abuse itself"
"Until you make the unconscious CONSCIOUS, it will direct your life and you will call it fate".
Carl Jung
"Growth is painful, change is painful but nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don't belong"
Michelle Ramsay
The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am then I can change
Carl Rogers.
